I have been ruminating on the style and fashion I saw in Europe, specifically Paris, for a week or so now. It is such a simple under stated look that it is almost difficult to write about. Let me start out by saying that the look is pretty consistent across Germany, Prague, and Paris. Paris stands out though because the number of fashionable woman (at every age, 8 to 80) far out number the less stylish.
Every one knows that in Paris they wear a lot of black and grey. But I had not full grasped to what extent. It is ALL black and grey. Every single person, almost every single piece of clothing. Occasionally I saw someone in brown. Usually beige, worn monochromatically. Very, very rarely I saw some one wearing a little color. Red or purple. But they could have been tourists lol. I packed a lot of black and grey for the trip but not enough! The dark clothing every where combined with the over cast weather made me feel very awkward in any color. Even a touch of white paired with dark colors seemed positively neon. Navy worked alright and deep purple would have been okay. But anything else, even typical Fall shades like cranberry, really stand out.
So when you are wearing this much black you obviously want it to be tailored and well fitting. But I didn’t get the feeling that the every day gal I saw on the streets of Paris was spending a fortune on her clothes. Quite the opposite. The Parisians woman seems to really know what fits her well and how to layer with out adding bulk. How much it cost or who made the clothing matters less than how well it fits. Being in fashion mecca I expected to see designer duds everywhere. Although there were plenty of obviously rich, I really enjoyed being out on the street during the week and in the metro with the average working women and students. They are the backbone of Paris style and from them I realized just how chic you could be in H&M and Zara.
Well fitting, trim, layers. The two main outfits were skinny jeans, boots, and a cute little jacket or simple knit above the knee skirt, tights, boots, cute little jacket. Add a trench coat and scarf, done.
No ruffles. No girlie details at all. The only embellishments I saw were studs. Studs are everywhere! Always on accessories, shoes and bags. It is ALL about the boot and a gorgeous slouchy bag in Europe. Shop at Zara and save your cash for a BBag.
Ahh the boots, they were gorgeous. Knee boots with a thicker,1″ or so, heel so it doesn’t fall down in between grates and cobbles. The other big boot style was a flat shorty boot often embellished with studs or buckles or both. Some were in a biker style others more cowboy. A plainer shorty boot was my fav though.
Style in Paris is as effortless as they say but it’s also stubborn. Even though we were there in Oct it was warm and humid. Oh my god, so humid. Despite the heat, a Parisian refuses to remove their jacket or coat. They will sit sweating on the subway (and they are sweating just as much as you are. Don’t worry, you all smell lol) but looking completely chic in all their layers. If your going to sweat why not do it in a fabulous jacket. Meanwhile, me the American, was striped down to a tank top looking miserable lmao.
As any curly haired gal knows, with humidity comes hair disaster. My flat ironed fried the first day in Paris (apparently the electricity converter does not work on digitally controlled devices…what’s that burning smell?) But I didn’t feel too bad because the average Parisian gal was not overly groomed and perfect. It would be impossible and way to much work to keep your hair just so in the very changeable weather. Most women wore their hair up in a simple bun or pony tail. If it was down, they left their hair slightly curly and disheveled. No big deal. Of course there were women with perfectly colored, flat as a board, impossibly perfect hair but that wasn’t the norm and it honestly looked like they were trying to hard.
Make up was also simple and low key. It’s all about the completed look and the woman. Not an individual piece of clothing, a brand, or a trendy embellishment. Buy what looks good on you, throw it on, and get out there and enjoy that beautiful city.

This just boils my oil! NO ruffles!? Anywhere! Exactly the problem with American fashion right now – because everything seems to be embellished or ruffled or flouffy to a WAAAAY overdone extent! It's funny too, because I always thought we, here in the states, were mimicking the French, because we always hear about how the French are the epitome of style and fashion — though it usually takes a year or two for their "look" to make it to us. So does that mean ruffles were *in* two years ago in Paris? I'm SO sick of them…..and I, along with I assume a good many others….would love to think of myself as chic and dressing in the European style, but I guess mayhaps I should start looking at more European boutiques and retailers to fill my wardrobe (if only the shipping costs weren't so exorbitant I definitely would do it more often.) One can only imagine most Europeans aren't sporting a bunch of graphic tees and hoodies either, but that's just my hypothesis — I could be totally wrong. Let's kill the ruffles already (hear me, J.Crew?!)
Thanks for allowing me to rant.
Your trip sounds just lovely — I'm entirely jealous!
Thanks for sharing your experiences and observations. They're very fascinating.
I think most European cultures appreciate fashion to a far greater extent than we do here in laid-back America. It is said (not by me but by a French national who is a friend) that even the average Parisian taxi driver knows as much about Paris Fashion Week and Parisian fashion as the American male sports fanantic knows about sports.
It's funny to hear you talk about French girls' hair — not a week goes by that someone IRL doesn't ask me if I am French. Now I know — it's the disheveled hair! lol
TTYL,
Carole
LOL no ruffles, how will I ever survive in Paris?
Thanks for the really interesting post Shannon — I am truly surprised at the apparent complete lack of color in Paris, what with bold brights being so in vogue these days. And sweating in one's coat! I simply cannot imagine.
My trip to Paris is in January — making a mental note to pack lots of black black black
Thanks for your insights it was interesting to read.
I hope hope the black and grey trend does not last beyond the Fall 09 season. I hate it, I need color. I walked through Zara on the weekend it was all black and grey so sombre looking. I find most people cannot wear black well, it makes them look so old. Who wants to look old? IMO.
I'm spending New Years in Paris and will be there from right after Christmas. I guess it's natural as a fashion-minded girl to be a little apprehensive about what to pack to PARIS. What I've been able to get together thus far is black, grey, skinny jeans and cords in blacks and greys. I'm packing a navy coat and a black coat. The only other color I've got going on is Khaki. Who ever thought my daring color choice would be … KHAKI. Thanks so much for the observations. Really, anything I can read on it is so entirely helpful.
Thanks for the interesting post, Shannon. I guess I'll be packing my black trench coat for Paris lol!
It's too bad because I really enjoy wearing color. I find the older I get the blacks and grays really do make me look tired and older. BUT I don't want to stand out like a freaky North American beacon!
I'm down with the simple makeup and the disheveled hair, but I'm not sure how I feel about the lack of color! I like my blacks and grays as much as the next gal, but I like to spice things up with some bright colors as well.
Now that we're discussing this though, the thing that comes to mind is Carrie Bradshaw in Paris in the last episode of SATC…remember how she didn't fit in at all and was all bright and colorful and wacky and…well…Carrie Bradshaw-ish?
Well, I'm pretty sure that would be me in Paris, except I like to think my French is a little better than Carrie's
Shannon,
thanks so much for the thoughtful post. I have *really* been trying to stay away from ruffles and (for once
your post has just helped me save some money on one of the embellished camis that I've been contemplating. I really appreciate your blog and comments. Thanks again.
When it comes to fashion, the French may be reserved yet elegant, but I bet many French women secretly admire our free-spirit American style.
Oh your comments are spot on, I'm British and spend a lot of time there, we Brits are the same, it's very much a dishevelled Left Bank look that's the norm.
I'm dying to introduce colour to my wardrobe even though I'll stand out like an exploding firework, I've just ordered gorgeous fripperies from J Crew!
Thank you for sharing your perspective on French style — really enjoyed reading this post (well, I love all of your posts, you know that!). I first went to Paris in the early 1980's, and I can remember how black, grey, and beige tones dominated every woman's look. Embellishments were rare. I went back about 15 years later, and those same neutral shades and fitted, minimal styles were still in charge! So, Jenna's love of neon pop and Gayle's obsession with ruffles and glitzy baubles would not be welcome on the streets of Paris. I do love the fact that most French women always look like they didn't try to hard to pull it together. I'll never look like that — I'm way too obsessed with color, texture, accessories, etc. I'm a girly-girl, and I love to "play" with my wardrobe.
Fantastic post, as usual.
Thanks for sharing your insights wtih us. there are definitely some thoughts in here for me to mull over…
Great post Shannon, thanks so much for the detail. While I love B&W+gray neutrals brown & navy as much as the next gal, I love bright colors. The thought of a world without color – well it's very "Pleasantville" and too somber/depressing. If I were in Paris I'd just embrace not fitting in, and rock my colorful American style. I'm a proud American, after all.
Also, CA wines are better, lol.
Shannon,
This is so off topic, but did you ever buy the Cinched Medallions top from Anthro this summer? I am searching for it, but wanted to know if you bought it and what you thought of it.
My sister is in Venice studying abroad right now, and she looks just like you described in her pictures. Somehow their European flair is so easy to copy when it is the simplicity of it is right in front of her eyes every day. Thanks for the post and the inspiration to try something classy and less *trendy*
Mariana
Mariana- no I never did buy it but I did love it. If I come by it on sale I'll probably snatch it up
thanks for reading ladies and for your comments! It is so interesting to hear the thoughts of those of you who have also been. I hope to hear reports from
every one going later this year!
The chic and easy style was definitely inspiring but I did start to miss the color and variety here in the USA!
I have to revisit the Paris SATC episodes now!